Month: February 2015

in which risk is the biggest thing

People are more than the sum total of their unsafe traits…. Don’t confuse people with unsafe traits. Learn to identify what traits hurt you.* There is such a glorious raw and open wound that happens when you own your story. Glorious in its freedom… Continue Reading “in which risk is the biggest thing”

when

I live in a world of “when.” When this happens, I will… I remember when…   When is always looking forward and always looking back. I’m not sure how happy I am with either at this point in my life. It’s not like I’m… Continue Reading “when”

unsafe people

I’ve been thinking a lot about safe people in the last several months, mainly because I’m in a situation where being able to have safe people is 100% needed for what I’m going through, and I need to able to identify those who are safe(who… Continue Reading “unsafe people”

keep

I’ve kept you long past our expiration date.   You see, INFJs tend to do that. Because connection with others is like the white buffalo for us, we will often fight tooth and nail to keep that someone we connect with in our lives.… Continue Reading “keep”

boundaries

I confess – I’m probably the only Christian in the world who hasn’t read the Boundaries book by Cloud and Townsend. I own a copy but I just haven’t gotten around to reading it. Last year my best friend tried to convince me of its… Continue Reading “boundaries”