Category: identity

Choices

America is the culture of overchoice. When faced with what should be a simple decision, the amount of time we spending weighing the pros and cons of each option is rarely worth the ulcer we got in the meantime. Tall or grande? Non-fat or… Continue Reading “Choices”

Yikes

Now I know why no one understands me. INTJ. It can’t be good when you are lumped into a group of people that includes Arnold Schwarzenegger and Hannibal Lector, can it? (C.S. Lewis is also on the list which makes me feel better. I… Continue Reading “Yikes”

Who I Am Hates Who I’ve Been

I watched the proverbial sunrise coming up over the Pacific andyou might think I’m losing my mind, but I will shy away from the specifics…’cause I don’t want you to know where I am ’cause then you’ll see my heart in the saddest state… Continue Reading “Who I Am Hates Who I’ve Been”

The Heart of an Artist

So I’ve spent the last two weeks thinking. A lot. And I’ve spent the last two weeks sheding many many tears. I’ve never really thought of myself as a negative person. In fact, I’ve ended two significant friendships because their negativity having such an… Continue Reading “The Heart of an Artist”

What Now?

My mind unprepared yet my heart prepared, I feel a crushing blow. I sit facing my friend – shocked but not shocked. Somehow I knew but didn’t know the unhappiness was so deep inside. I was reflecting into the people and places who didn’t… Continue Reading “What Now?”